Ok, one last data point, on my way home i got a run through 2 gears, it held until i went into 4th gear where the VCT disables while 3rd gear seemed...
I was apparently making changes when you posted this :) Don't forget the pressure presets too... Again, I don't know if what I posted is near right....
Why not lower the adapts and fills for the clutch having problems? Don't know if these are anywhere near right, so ease up to what you're testing for...