Welcome patooyee, I am nowhere near a veteran here either, so I always hope that someone with more knowledge comes along to correct me when I am wrong. I am getting a pretty good understanding of DBW due to my immersion in this project, though
Welcome, by the way.
The IAC is how they controlled idle air when throttles had cables and there was no other (cheap, reliable) means of opening and closing the throttle blades quickly via computer control. With DBW, there is no IAC motor and all of the air control is done with the main throttle blade(s) by the throttle servo. Makes for kind of a confusing interface for the scanner and calibration editor since so many OS's could do either depending on the segment option. I even see a couple of IAC PIDs in the scanner for my DBW calibration.
No, you cannot add an IAC motor to the DBW setup.
As far as the area deal goes, it took some long calculations to show me something I already learned 20 years ago in college: the rate of change does not depend on the shape of the hole(s). I plotted single round, dual round, mono, square and even triangular profiles and the area vs angle curve looked exactly the same every time. I couldn't believe it at first, but then I was like "duh, I should have seen that from the formula".
Believe me, not having gone to DBW for this project would have GREATLY simplified my life. It's a labor of love and I am glad I did it.