Post your tune so we can see what you have done.
As there isn't tuning for the 8sp yet, you have to work with what is already programmed in the TCM.
Luckily, it is pretty good for the most part and it doesn't care if NN is on or off.
Trans doesn't seem to like maxing the torque adapts or zeroing the tq shift red, keep these close to stock.
The shifting is based off road speed/pedal position not TB position, so when you jack up the throttle request tables etc, you add power for same pedal position. So to go same speed/accel you use less pedal and...guess what, it shifts earlier.
Diablo's throttle boost feature does exactly this
Takes a bit of time especially if you add lotsa torque with a blower, but by juggling the airflow and throttle tables, it can be made to shift/drive awesome.