update: found a fix!
i did increase the 400 column of the VE table to about 90% of the 800 column and smoothed both. but honestly, it didn't make any big difference. but it is the VE table i ended up using.
what did make a HUGE difference, and has appeared to solve the problem is; i disabled the "Proportional" & "Integral" Idle RPM tables. I did this by increasing the "enable rpm error" box to 2000 (a situation that would never happen).
Although it was my understanding that these are "adder" tables, they affect the idle in an adverse way in my situation. without the VSS, MAF, & PNR1234 sensors the ECM thinks its in 2nd gear & Zero mph all the time. it is my speculation that; sitting a Zero mph, the engine still idling at 800-900 rolling to a stop, these tables "subtract" airflow in an effort to slow the engine. and as you roll to a stop and the rpm's do come down it doesn't react fast enough in the positive direction. remember it thinks its a 0mph all the time!
anyhow i did learn a lot getting through this problem. also, i tried disabling the "adaptive idle" function also, but that made no difference, so it is running with stock parameters.
and, with the Z06 cam, 10%+ Base Running Airflow increase helped dial in, and maintain the idle as everyone said and was a reasonable thing to do.
thanks for the help guys!